That is definitely a part of it. But do not underestimate the ability of a WW not to see that her problems are bigger than her ex. She may NEVER come to that realization. It can help her see it, but many do not.
The key is this: you make yourself happy.
Once you do that, it doesn't matter what she does or doesn't realize.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018