Basically, detaching, doing the GAL...you make yourself happy.
Meanwhile, the WW still isn't happy, but you are, and so she can't blame you and HAS to, at some point, take ownership of her own issues...because you aren't there to cause her more problems...or the problems she had before are STILL there...so she can't blame you for them at all.
I'm thinking this is part of the psychological aspect of DB...I have this thing where if I understand things, I perform better. Am I on the right track with this line of thinking?
