I like the way you handled the landlord issue. You acted to solve the problem and you didn't get emotional.

But the comment about your lives reconverging and asking to pray with your wife were very strong pursuit and exactly the sort of thing DB says you shouldn't do.

The praying thing is especially bad because it's as if you are trying to use God to help pursue her. No. Just no. Pray for her, but do it alone and without her knowing.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16