Thanks for your input.

After these events and later on the afternoon she acidently smashed a glass, lost her temper and left the house for a drive in the car (run off to see the OM), came back 3 hours later. While she was out my daughter kept asking where she was, i replied that mummy needed time to herself. She wanted to call her, but i said the leave mummy alone, was i right to stop her ringing?

She came back all happy. She has an history with drugs, should i be concerned?

She came back from work today quite happy. I needed to pick my car up from work which was 2 hours walk away, so i a said i was going out and left. I come back and she is sleeping on the sofa. Then she wakes up and is quite offish with me.

So i went outside and played with the kids for the next 3 hours. Now im upstairs out of her way.