I think what im saying is that NG is my plan B. And I am his plan B as well. So maybe its harder to love in those situations?
No this isn't so Ju.
Neither of you are going back to R with dingbat wassocks. That's making each other Plan B.
Whathe you have is a DRAFT plan A. Plan A in the making, provisional tentative, negotiating the clauses. Except in this case it's a Plan A with negotiation.
Nothing wrong with that.
Real true love (not limmerance) takes a long time. Don't knock it.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW