My goodnesss he is angry. As Job said, you being safe are a target. I found that people who are hurting will lash out in anger. Their inner pain is driving the anger.

You are doing such a good job on ignoring his bullying texts.

Interesting his hand written note about renewing his life insurance. Are you still the beneficiary? Or is it the kids? Do you even know? You of course do not have to answer.

This just got me thinking of when W dropped the bomb everything was in her name. All policies, accounts, and property would be paid to her if something had happened to me. That was one of the very first things I had to change, the beneficiary from W to kids. I also let her know about the change.

So I am worth $0 to her now. I still have a policy on her, which does seem a bit weird.

I am glad things are looking up. Better days are definitely ahead for you.


Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.