Wow, thats crazy town stuff. I cant understand her reasons for doing that....I guess making you look bad makes her feel better about her crappy decisions, but if she knows shes LYING about it? That, I dont get at all. I guess thats why they tell you here not to try to make sense of what the WAS does...because it doesnt make sense and in the meantime you make yourself crazy trying to make sense of their crazy.
The only way I can make sense of it is that she can't get what she wants (sympathy and attention) by going around saying "I walked out on my husband and kids so I could cheat and do drugs. I have seen my kids for a combined time of 20 hours in the past 6 months" Instead she uses "my husband is crazy. He beats me, abuses the kids, and breaks into my house to take videos of me" because that gets her the attention she wants. Also probably helps alleviate any guilt...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
