Affair discovered 2

[STH17]

Quick update: W asked if our plans had changed for tomorrow. I just said I still planned on going to the baptism. She said ok. I expect her to have an overnight stay with AP (or longer, with the packed bag I saw) but I'll be staying overnight with my son at my parents' house. Or maybe she's planning on staying with her family. Pretty sure her original plan was mischief though. Kind of feel like we're back to don't ask don't tell, but at least I'm not making undue sacrifices. She doesn't like to drive, but also thinks I'm an unsafe driver. I am thinking of asking her to drive and sitting in the back seat myself with my son. That saves me from her sitting there texting and facebooking and making plans with AP, which I think is what she did for her first encounter. If I have to I can be direct and say I won't have her in the car disrespecting me. But I know she is taking the car tomorrow for a date too. I guess I could say plans are changing and I'm keeping the car if I'm keeping our son, and she can borrow her parents car. Let her lie to them about why. Hm, wonder if that's worth it. It would be like trying to stop her from seeing AP. Not really worth my energy, is it? She'll find a way and just resent me more. Or maybe just maybe she'll respect me for not enabling her. Doubtful. Plan was she drops me off with my family, takes son to her family's party, then drops off son and car seat off with me to put in my mom's minivan. Then she would take the car off by herself and pick us up Sunday, no time set. I don't want to be at her mercy for when she chooses to pick us up while I suspect she is meeting with AP. Sigh.

I'm going running tomorrow morning with my church men's group. stopped going to church a while ago but the men's group is good. Excited for that.