Pity about her being unemployed, but as for your child i believe its best to play it cool, only be demanding if she is always never coming home. Keep things as simple for your son as possible.

DB'ing isn't really going to save your marriage, this is what almost everyone here can attest to. We all came here looking for the solution, but when we realised that the problem was us, the want-away spouse didn't matter anymore.

Have faith in the process, and in yourself. You really can't [censored] this up anymore than it already is - so relax, just relax.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.