Hello, I'm new here. :)

[Jlh]

H came by to pick up our son for the weekend and you'd think I was the worst person in the world the way he treats me. Is this part of the MLC process where they somehow get it in their heads that the LBS is the bad guy and they try to avoid them at all costs? My son and I were happy to show him a new game he learned and H just stands their stone cold toward me not listening as he starts to play with our son. I just shook my head and walked away.

Sometimes I wrack my brains trying to think of why he suddenly acts so repulsed by me and other than his EA I cant think of a thing other than the stress we went through for a few years due to our son's special needs.

I'm tempted to tell him civilly that I get that he hates me now and would rather not have to talk to me but I am his son's mother and deserves a little respect because I've been quite civil toward him in this mess.

And he always thanks me for letting him see our son. I don't understand that part because I would never keep them apart. I just made some boundary rules last week where he cant come by any times he feels like it anymore but he continues to thank me for letting him talk to our boy on the phone, see him some nights, on weekends, etc. He makes it seem like I'M the witch giving him grief.