We did not break them and despite our wishes we cannot fix them
The stuff with her dad would definitely mess up her sense of love and sexuality
How could it not
I have felt the same as you
That we are beyond the point of return
It is part of he process of letting go
Bht you never know what the future holds
And yes please make the home your home for you and the kids
Just the way you want it
Peace
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving