Newbie In Need Of Guidance #3

[rminer]

She won't. A person can't be in true love with more then one person at a time.

That was more of a rhetorical question, but point taken.

What are the positives and negatives of blowing the A up?

Pros: Getting some of my self respect back, getting my kids respect back (I think I've taken a hit with them), relieving stress by getting it off my chest, feeling like I at least have a little control over my future, not feeling taken advantage of, possibly ending the A, to name a few.


Cons: W running, ending M, losing everything I have worked for, losing my family, losing my kids (No, part time parenting is not the same as having them), different kind of stress, more hurt to the kids


Both lists could go on. I don't see a clear cut winner with either list because no matter which way I go, nothing is certain. Both lists could lead to the other in the end. I just can't decide which is most likely to lead to the outcome I desire.