You filled out the papers for her? Do you want a divorce? Why would you help her with that?
I know I know... I wanted her to feel comfortable mainly, and to let her know I agree with her our marriage is dead, but I believe we can have a new and better relationship.
Over the past few years I've had a history of not doing things I should have done, or told her I would do. I needed to keep my word on that one. Ive learned I also need to keep my mouth shut so stuff like that doesn't fly out again
She told me last night she did not do anything with the papers. Plus there is a lot she still has to do...
But as of 060818, 1200 PM - I am in full LRT mode.
I appreciate your thoughts!
NGS (Nice Guy Syndrome) to the max. You're afraid to rock the boat. Well she isn't. Go read No More Mr Nice Guy as soon as possible.
Your word was to be there for life, so was hers.
Your word on a lesser issue can change. I'd make a habit of taking time if you don't know how to respond rather than making a quick response you change later.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
