You are doing a great job at staying positive. I think the fact that after all this time that you still want to put things back together is a testament to your love and commitment. I love my W but worry that as time drags on my desire for that will start to diminish. You are an inspiration to me because I dont want to feel that way.

You mention D still has anger and resentment towards W. Do you know why specifically? I mean Ive read your sitch so I could pick out plenty of reason why she would, but do you know specifically which parts she holds the resentment towards?


Me: 45 yrs
W: 43 yrs
Together: 20 yrs
Married: 15 yrs
Son: 19 yrs
Daughter: 18 yrs
BD: Jan 2017