1) Should I act as if I am fine with her decision even though I don't agree with her information or reasoning?
2) I have not apologized in person for my past behavior, I only did so in emails while she was gone. Should I do that now in person or is that talking about the past?
3) Is it okay to politely ask questions that might reveal flaws in her plan to move in with her parents (which would mean talking about the future)?
4) Should I be proactive with starting to separate our assets/accounts or even starting the legal separation process if nothing changes and she prepares to move away?
None of these, except maybe #4, have anything to do with LRT. Are you sure you know what LRT is?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018