Last Resort Questions

[Gordie]

Second doodler

General advice which served me well

Fine for you to disagree but let go

Say I disagree with your decision to divorce but respect it and will not stand in the way of your happiness

Then stop engaging in r talks

And get busy living like an unmarried person

I do not mean dating

And definitely do not do the work to divorce and separate and move

Let her do that work

Separate your finances if it in your best interest

I did that because w was spending like crazy

Okay for you to detach and distance and stop acting like her H and doing stuff for her

She fired you from that job

She is not treating you like a H

But she will let you treat her as a W if it serves her purposes

The faster you can stop feeding the cake the better

No need to be mean and nasty

Just stop doing things without her asking as you used to do as H

If she wants you to do something she can ask you

And when she asks you can choose to say yes or no or I am busy right now

This is very hard to do after so many years