Newbie In Need Of Guidance #3

[rminer]

Sounds like good progress Miner, stay self aware. Don't believe things just bc you want to - I know I have been guilty of that a lot.

I'm trying not to believe anything as much as I want to. My trust for her is gone to the point I assume she is lying until I see otherwise.

You guys can't stay in that scout troop if she's serious about a good marriage with you. What's the point in her being around the OM all the time?

No, S8 can't. The plan is to get him out ASAP. I just need to figure out the best method.

I'd be skeptical about individual vacations too.

Don't think I'm not. I just know there is nothing I can do to stop her.

She's going to be mad if you bring up either of these points, prepare yourself for that. Her anger is just her anger, and you're free to tell her how you feel IMO.

Knowing my wife, once I force the issue mad won't begin to describe her. I anticipate her fighting it all the way, especially with the state of mind she is in.