A familiar story with questions. V

[SteveLW]

RR, my point was that the R talk will not result in limbo going away UNLESS YOU TAKE THE STEPS TO MAKE LIMBO GO AWAY AFTER THE TALK.

If you want to ask her to move out, then do it. But don't expect it will happen fast or soon. WWs are notorious for dragging their feet on this kind of thing.

Do not move out of the house. That would be a mistake, almost every DBing expert agrees with that.

Yes I understand it is about the PW changes, and the emotions (attachment) you are feeling because of that. That is why you should take some time to consider things. Just read STH's thread, he confronted and now he is dealing with the aftermath. Most LBSs have a likely outcome (one that favors them) in their mind when they take these kinds of steps and it rarely works out that way.

Again, no one would blame you if 6 months in limbo is too much for you and you want to take steps to end things. But expecting her to take action after a R talk is not likely to incite that action.