Affair discovered 2

[STH17]

W slept on the couch last night. She packed a suitcase while I was at work today. Looks like enough for an extended stay, not just the weekend. She also removed the art prints she recently hung in the bedroom. So she's at least moving out of the bedroom, could be out of the house. This doesn't feel like DBing, just feels like divorce. Shoul I be proactive and ask W how long she plans to be gone, so we can plan for childcare, or wait for her to bring it up herself? Didn't think all this through much past the confrontation. Just didn't want to keep her dirty secret anymore and be so self-effacing.