You filled out the papers for her? Do you want a divorce? Why would you help her with that?
I know I know... I wanted her to feel comfortable mainly, and to let her know I agree with her our marriage is dead, but I believe we can have a new and better relationship.
Over the past few years I've had a history of not doing things I should have done, or told her I would do. I needed to keep my word on that one. Ive learned I also need to keep my mouth shut so stuff like that doesn't fly out again
She told me last night she did not do anything with the papers. Plus there is a lot she still has to do...
But as of 060818, 1200 PM - I am in full LRT mode.
I appreciate your thoughts!
You can always change your mind. It's not like you vowed before hundreds of people to get a divorce.
Don't help do this if it isn't what you want. You aren't going to be able to make her feel comfortable by accomplishing tasks for her.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.