Yes limbo is painful!!!! I lived it for 2.5 years and as I read here once it's soul sucking.
What reaction are you trying to get? You are right I never loved you blah, blah, blah. or oh no honey I love you so much let's make it work. Your not gonna get either. You are just gonna become more unattractive to her.
You are not there or you would communicate to her in a loving way that you can't do limbo anymore and if she doesn't want work on the marriage you will file. When someone changes the terms of a relationship that you don't agree with you walk and you never look back.
There is nothing wrong with filing if you are done. There is nothing wrong for standing for your marriage if you are not.
Why do you want to be with a women who doesn't want to be with you?
Its actions that will turn this around and it is on her terms not yours unless you file.
I know this is harsh $hit and this is very hard but I am trying to help you work through the thought process.
Again I am not telling you to file I am just reading between the lines of the BS your spewing right now because you are upset about the PW change which is rightfully so.
