But I'm not putting any pressure, no ultimatum. I am merely suggesting that we get proactive about an amicable split if in fact, that is still what she wants. I am in fact removing pressure. No?
I may be removing some of the mystery of my personal state. Her time has elapsed.
There is no reason to expedite this possible plan. I feel fortunate that I have this group to bounce things off of.
Again if I am missing something bring it on. I feed off of others perspectives. Once I pull the pin, I can't replace it.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
