JS, yes WWs in particular are a lot of bluster and threats, with little to no action. Unlike those of us trying to DB, they think that words will control and cause action. Your response was PERFECT!!! "ok, just let me know when you want to do that tonight", I love it. It is so neutral that it is perfect. You weren't saying "Sure, would love too!", nor were you saying "I am against moving forward so I refuse." It left the ball in her court. It meant, YOU (her) needed to decide when and then initiate the conversation, and the making of the appointment. TYpically when it came down to initiative and action, she, like most WWs dropped the ball. See mtb's thread about his WW demanding the birth certs. Then when he left it up to her "they are in the mailbox, stop and get them anytime" she never showed up.

Bluster. Threats. No action. No initiative. That is the epitome of a WW!!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018