Well done on getting the bed back. It is really a big victory.
I also want to add that whatever you believe, becomes your reality. Those beliefs are based on your values and morals. So make sure that you find you can clearly identify what you will and will not accept. Make it a very very thick line, one that not even you can cross.
Woman want a strong man, they want to be challenged, so even if things don't work out, you'll be strong for the next person.
My D threw me into an identity crisis, my XWW is still on her roller-coaster, i'm eating popcorn watching this crazy thing go past me. I've found it to be quite entertaining. You need to find a way to laugh, cos the only other option is tears. Tears from laughter is best though.
Have no doubt that when you get off her coaster, you will be the best man that you've been. So enjoy the ride/lesson.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
