I simply don't understand...

[Hornsfa]

You asked for thoughts.

A lot of pursuit.

Way too little patience.

Some things that come across as controlling. No, you shouldn't tell her she has to go on a walk with you. You shouldn't tell her you know what the answer in her heart is.

Have you read Divorce Remedy?

Rose,

You are right. I do see the pursuit, but I also admit I feel like I am losing the battle against time.

I do realize there is nothing in her heart for me at all right now. I've been trying to appeal to the head instead. I know she is listening because I know her facial expressions. I can tell when she is processing.. disagreeing... agreeing on things I say.

I have DR and have been reading it for the past few days. Skipping around as MWD suggests for info that may be benefit my situation. And also reading links here. I do feel like I am making some progress in learning what to do, but reading all this info and trying to adapt it is overwhelming.

Thank you for your thoughts!