Gordie, I think you are doing a great job.

I see hope in your wife's recent changes, but of course expectations cause problems, so I hesitate to give anything too much weight.

Hang in there.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16