A familiar story with questions. V

[RR17]

So I found out that W recently changed her email password. At first, I blew it off as no big deal. There could be a legitimate reason. She told me,.. when I asked if she had changed any other passwords because I was having trouble logging in to a bank account. She also got mad for being accused. I didn't accuse her. I asked her.

When she got mad on the phone and then became dismissive. I sent the following texts.

M: "In case you haven't realized it, I fight suspicion every day. This is not an exaggeration. I do. Sometimes it is something you do or say. Sometimes it is completely unjustified. But it shows its face every day.
If I didn't openly accuse you it is because I didn't choose to. If I didn't choose the right words, I guess I didn't think you had anything to hide."

"Refusing to restore or at least try to restore my trust, comes with baggage. Leaving it to me to simply decide that I am going to will myself to trust that you aren't still plotting behind my back has taken a lot of self control. A whole lot.
I'm telling you this because I don't think you even considered it.
I know you have been through a lot. I know that you are struggling with stuff at work.
If I don't accuse you of something and you feel accused, I'm not the [censored].
And like you, I don't like to be falsely accused."

Yeah, I know I probably should have suffered in silence, but sometimes feeling just slip out.