And WW isn't questioning her decisions, she is having the time of her life with triangulation (otherwise called 'the pick me' dance).
I think you need a new counsellor, one that will help you more on enforcing your boundaries. You state the boundaries and then don't enforce them. Boundaries are useless without enforcement.
But awwwwwww of course, she 'gave' you time on your anniversary, pulling your strings.
And call her on her stupid scrambled eggs for brains nonsense.
The way is to start saying "really?" We both know the truth WW so I don't know why you bother with such nonsense" . Then STFU and walk away.
"I think you should sleep on the sofa" when she texts an OM in the MBR.
She isn't doing this to keep you 'close', she is entitled and you are plan B. It's not you she wants, you are a soft option as often OM aren't really interested in a proper R. Your old M is dead, so work on you to be ready for the next phase.
I know my words seem harsh so I am adding big hugs.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
