I know post divorce its hard to find some one to simply date, that us even some what nornal. But what about loving someone?
Obviously it will be hard for many of us to trust someone new. But what does it take to love somebody new? They are not family. You are not raising kids together. You are not dependent on someone. Whats the whole point?
Did you love your ex and a kid together when you met? It took time to build that, right? Did you only love him after getting married and having a kid?
That happened over time. You make your own lives, history and family that includes your son with a guy who loves and respects you and that you love being with.
