Kids will bounce back after the D, they are resilient." this is something all WAS (and WWs in particular) tell themselves so they have less guilt about gut punching their kids.
It is like there is a textbook of get away guilt free quotes somewhere, in my sitch H said exactly the same thing and that in this day and age having a home with 2 parents vs divorced parents means no difference for kids. He also said since ours are so small in age, the sooner it gets done the better it is for them hence his hurry.He wants to prove to world that he can raise kids better by being Dd than others who are still in MRs.
