I don't know if I should laugh or cry...

I've been chatting to one of the other studio tenants I'm friends with (and who works in the same field as XH and the same field that I occasionally wok in as well).

Anyway, he was in a relationship for 2 years, and about 4 months ago his boyfriend split up with him.

They're both very young (early 20s) and from what I'm hearing, the ex boyfriend sounds like he was particularly immature and unaware of other people's feelings.

Today I learnt that the ex boyfriend had split up with the words 'ILYBINILWY'.

It's what my XH said to me the night he left.

I don't know if I should laugh or cry.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017