Very interesting update! RR I really believe that has May turned into June the reality of everything is starting to hit her. And she is realizing that her pipe dream is just that. Talking about quitting her job is the exact opposite of moving out in 5/18! And her showing emotion is a clear sign that she may be coming back to MR. WAWs/WWs do not go back on their declarations lightly. It is difficult for them to go from "I am done, I am out of here" to "I want to work on things, I want to stay". Changing their mind like that is often slow, and emotionally draining for them. Initially there may even be some "I am stuck here" depression that they have to work through.
But keep up the great work RR! You are DBing well.
It's taken a while to get to this point. If there is a lesson to be learned, it's follow the rules. Work to get your masculine swagger back. Threat the W like you would when you were single and just some woman did this crap to you. Tell them what you would like to see happen (lighthouse) and pull away. Limit your interactions. Stay mysterious yet pleasant. Avoid confrontation.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
