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Originally Posted By: Vanilla
Hard work, I am determined to put my life in order and get everything sorted that has been left for a long time.


Do I detect a little Jordan Peterson in that statement? wink

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Or maybe theres a little bit of vanilla in Peterson's statements


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Originally Posted By: Vanilla
Hard work, I am determined to put my life in order and get everything sorted that has been left for a long time.


Do I detect a little Jordan Peterson in that statement? wink



No I do stuff rather than just talk about it.

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Woke at 4 am restless. Watched TV, a lot on my mind.

A great deal of work and study to do today.

My plan for open sore challenge today was study but I have two urgent jobs to do for clients and two calls but those are current. Cost 5 hrs or so.

So study is chaps 8 to 12.

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So an open sore challenge for tomorrow happened today. It is day 13.

My lovely builder came today to help me as I have had a blocked drain in the G old bathroom since before he left. And I rediscovered it when cleaning the shower the other day. They unscrewed the outside caps and found under the header cap, a whole pile of used condoms.

Trust V they aren't hers.

So the G was bringing home used condoms or overused knickers down to the big house and flushing the evidence down the loo! Duh! Duh!

We have eccentric plumbing here and it won't flush but float. Don't get rid of evidence that way pea brain.

I frankly don't know whether to laugh, what next? Or be astonished the damn things last so long.

I hope he doesn't want them back.

Really!

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Ummm....doubt he was bringing used condoms home. More likely he was having guests over when you weren't there. Creep.

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But hey - bright side - he was using condoms!

My ex - knowledgeable physician that he was - apparently couldn't be bothered when he had his affair.

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Originally Posted By: kml
But hey - bright side - he was using condoms!

My ex - knowledgeable physician that he was - apparently couldn't be bothered when he had his affair.


My exH knew he had a zero percent chance of impregnating a woman, so I am pretty sure he didn't use them either. And he was having sex with his pregnant wife.

That's pretty gross V. He's an idiot. Very odd way of getting rid of evidence.

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Day 14 of 100 dealing with open sore issues

Today I am going to wear shorts (not very short ones) and walk to the shops in the village

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And looking fabulous I am sure!

V - Have you ever posted to exquisitetobe? She is struggling with how to deal with an upcoming encounter with an abusive former X. I had nothing helpful other than hugs. I didn't know if you might have a perspective on that.


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