Newbie In Need Of Guidance #3

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Sounds like good progress Miner, stay self aware. Don't believe things just bc you want to - I know I have been guilty of that a lot.

Don't feel required to respond to everything she does or asks right away if you aren't sure how you feel about it too.

You guys can't stay in that scout troop if she's serious about a good marriage with you. What's the point in her being around the OM all the time? I'd be skeptical about individual vacations too.

She's going to be mad if you bring up either of these points, prepare yourself for that. Her anger is just her anger, and you're free to tell her how you feel IMO.

Take your time, talk to your counselor, friends, etc and collect yourself first. Good luck!