All, another quick update. My husband just called to ask how our daughter is doing. He called while she's at school and he knows she's not home. I said a few words about an illness she's been having and I thought he'd go after that but he hung on to talk more. I then said I'll have her call him when she gets back. It's a small thing, but another sign that he's thinking of our daughter and feels comfortable again calling me directly to ask about her. Not a sign of reconciliation, but at least our daughter is on his agenda.