Outside of one interesting question, an uneventful day and night yesterday.

Prior to bed, my S came came down to say goodnight to me and my W. He asked "Dad, where are we going on vacation this summer?"
W was sitting right beside me and heard it all.
My response was just "Me and your mommy will have to talk about it, Good night son, we love you".

I don't know about how it felt to W, but that one kind of stung me. Here we are, well W, planning her departure and working towards a D (with no present movement of course) and our S asking about how we are all going to enjoy summer together. I didn't say anything to W after he left, but I bet that one stung her a little bit. Or maybe she is still in her fog and didn't even hear it as an issue. I can't read her mind, but I felt the question deeply. As I said, I didn't react, just said what I said, gave him a hug and a kiss and sent him off to bed.

I hope she heard it, thinks about it, and puts this in the realization category of how things will be if we do D.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18