A familiar story with questions. V

[SteveLW]

So get this. W funded my petty account.
Comes home from being all sweet and says that she is about to quit her job. Then we walk to get dinner. On the way home her voice started cracking and she nearly shed a tear. She almost never cries. I asked her what was wrong and she just said she had a lot on her shoulders. I wondered if I should put my arm around her but I didn't. She snapped out and was fine.

I need to pull back and gain some detachment.

Very interesting update! RR I really believe that has May turned into June the reality of everything is starting to hit her. And she is realizing that her pipe dream is just that. Talking about quitting her job is the exact opposite of moving out in 5/18! And her showing emotion is a clear sign that she may be coming back to MR. WAWs/WWs do not go back on their declarations lightly. It is difficult for them to go from "I am done, I am out of here" to "I want to work on things, I want to stay". Changing their mind like that is often slow, and emotionally draining for them. Initially there may even be some "I am stuck here" depression that they have to work through.

But keep up the great work RR! You are DBing well.