I dont think of men being able to love or attach to children. I know from these boards that some do. But i have also seen LBS questioning in one paragraph whether they should bail. Like in my mind that would never have been an option. Even for a 2nd. Its more rare for moms to abandin their kids. Im not saying it doesnt happen, its just a lot more rare. I worry that many men view kids as obligations. So another mans kids?
