Stander everything you said I completely get and very much appreciate! The only part I can't relate to/see is R'd with W in a couple of years. Just feel like it's do or die for us R wise only until W can file. I just can't see R'ing years after D. W is a very black/white, open/shut personality.
ACC...LOL that my approach in the most trying time of my life should be contained in Fast Times at Ridgemont High...I don't "think" I said I wanted to apologize for anything to W. I mean as best I can say I feel like I didn't spend enough US time with her after D went down and the impact of having D changed sex for both of us, but the thing is we NEVER talked about either of these topics. For me it was never intentional to not to. I can confidently say that I would have done ANYTHING I could to make our MR better, but I can't read minds. The silent treatment...meet with IC today will be interesting to get her take on it. Will just Mike Damone on along...
V, thank you..I think it's still tied to me taking my ring off and her beliefs of my imaginary women. As I say you wonder how long a person can carry on such anger via passive/aggressive. It's her trying to be abusive, but why? You are free of me now...
