Of course everyone can and should look at their behaviors and choose what they want to work on. But sometimes I think the LBS'ers stare at themselves too much b/c hey "we are all we control." The fact is, sometimes nothing we have done justifies what the WAS's are doing.
Besides, Most spouses who want out, or are having A's, use the term "controlling" for an LBS.
Because what other "Flaw" can they use to justify walking out on a spouse and 2 small kids, including an enfant??
If you are not an alcoholic, violent, hiding money or cheating, the remaining term that comes up here the most is "controlling."
Maybe the other categories tend to know why things are happening and don't come to this site.
And for a grown man to need to go find himself b/c his wife, who just had his second child, is "controlling", reeks of excuse making.
But only you know your m or you.
Hang in there, and protect yourself and your babies.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
