Thanks for checking in

Tollowed advice and have said nothing about her debt

Life is good with end of school activities and work

So big development is w came to talk to me about her childhood trauma

I listened and listened some more

She acknowledges that her issues damaged our M

She kissed me on the lips

Still sleeping separately and no sex

We argued once because she wants me to tell her where i am going at all times

I stopped doing this last year and have continued not to do so

She also feels as if i am keeping my distance and she asked me why

I said you hurt me very badly

And she said nothing and gave me a hug


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving