When I brought up the subject to my EW she was more than willing to split up our finances.....you might find out that the conversation will be easier than you think.

TBH......if you are separated IMO you must do it. I had no desire to know my EW's whereabouts, what she was going, what time of night she was doing it, etc.

Technically the only things she paid for was her rent, living expenses and cell phone bill. I paid for everything else.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018