I disagree with Steve. Taking pressure slows the process down but in most cases the end result is still D.
What I will say is that because she is not on the fast train out there is a good chance there is no A.
LH, I don't see this as in disagreement with what I said, but an aspect of what I said. In my sitch backing off and taking the pressure off CAUSED my W to start to see the reality of D. In fact, as I embraced the idea of inevitable D, she backed off of it at almost the same rate. So it is often times a combination of the LBS letting go AND the reality of D sobering up the WAS.
I agree with your last assessment to, with one caveat. There is a good chance there is no A NOW. There could have been one at the time of BD, but it ran its course and ended.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
