Update- I spoke in detail to my S teachers more so the one subject that he is struggling with. I had discussed with his teacher that due to his current situation he empty and unmotivated. Based upon his past marks I had asked the teacher for more support and an extension on his current BIG project(worth 10%of his year) due tomorrow. His teacher was very receptive acknowledging S as a good student undergoing a terrible transition in life. That said, she gave him an extension also giving him an opportunity to rectify a bad mark along with additional help on the weekend should he need more help she will volunteer her time at the local library. WOW! She stated at the current time his mark is 55% but a bad project and a fail in the last exam will make him fail his course. I assured her that I will do everything in my power to support and assist him in passing her class. The other teacher I had spoken seem to feel that S is a good student he is passing the other classes but they too are aware that S is in turmoil.
Lastly b/c S has so many things to do and catch up on - he has asked me to reach out to W because he was supposed to have a meal; at her place tonight. Simply put- I had asked him if he wanted to have a meal at her place - no pressure. I told him I would support his decision either way. He said to text W to let her know that he was too busy and was not able to go. W test back Thanks for letting me know- have a good nite!. I did not text back thinking it was pursuit. That's it for now.
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18
