So I am set to talk to her on the phone at 5:45 this evening. I'm going to try to go to the gym beforehand to work off some nervous energy and distract my mind.
I think I just need to be as transparent with her as possible. I dont think she wants me to support her at all, but I need to ask her about that. If she is frugal she should be able to make it on her own, she makes an okay salary and our city cost of living is not crazy high. If she doesnt want me to support her, then I really shouldnt have a say in her budget. She will probably need some money from our savings to get started (buy car, put down payment on apartment, pay car insurance) and we should discuss that. We should discuss the few shared bills we have. We should also discuss the credit cards and the house.
I am still not sure about dividing up the savings. I am open to opinions on that part.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
