Hi Nicole, your H is definitely cooling off. May be it is the realization that life outside of his family is not as exciting as he thought it would be, may be it is the insecurity kicking in that you may be interested in other men or just may be his brain is rewired there is no telling but I think he is showing positive signs. and kudos that you are handling it well. Do what you are doing, stay put and give him a chance to make amends. If he does prove himself then just maybe he will get another chance. You have shown strength in your resilience and managing life on your own. Good for you.