Wife is not who I married... Pls Help Part 3

[LoneWlf]

RR -Thru this difficult process after the BD one goes thru various phases of questioning ones behaviors, motives and results. Often times we even question our self worth. With this comes self reflection to examine who are. What we did. How well it worked. Thru my self reflection I have realized where my W and I may have began to go on different paths. I have also seen the consequence of the action or lack there of and the way it played out. Having said that I take full ownership of my part in the deterioration of this relationship. I truly feel that what has transpired is fully repairable. I also understand that even tho 2 people experience the same thing- You may get 2 totally different perspectives on what happened. What I deem repairable may seem irreparable to my W. This time of self reflection has also given me a time for growth and should there be a recon I will be more prepared for the journey. I hope this helps. Blessings!