Hi Nicole,

I think you're doing brilliantly. It must be so confusing now that H is thawing somewhat. I don't have any advice as you seem to be handling these interactions really well.
Just tread carefully and protect your heart. No matter how detached we tell ourselves we are...there is always that sneaky emotion that creeps in, and with it expectations. But you've made such great progress, I'm sure these moments are just glancing off the target.

I'm sure H is confused too. Time will tell. Enjoy your trip next week.


Me 50 H 48
S 23 S 21 D 19
Together 31 years
Married 25 years
Separated April 2009 Reconciled 2010
Separated September 2017