D.....my ex and I sat down and went through each of our net monthly incomes and separated each bill and who was going to pay for what. What our monthly ent money would be, gas, groceries, etc. We both new hoe much the other person would have left over at the end of the month.

My ex could not afford to move out and be on her own without my help. So either I told her no, you are not moving because you can t afford to or I say let s sit down and talk about how we make this happen because I can t go on like this and if you want to be free I will st you free.

Can your wife make it on her own with rent, the bills split 50/50, food, gas money, ent etc.?




Can your wife make it on her own with getting money from you? I put my wife s budget together for her and she agreed to it. My wife would not have been able to move out without me financially supporting her. But if she wanted out I wasn t going to force her stay for that reason.



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Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018