Oh, one more thing. I plan to use this outburst to establish boundaries. Something like: "If you want to discuss finances, I'd be happy to sit down at a reasonable time and in a civilize fashion" now here is where I get stuck. As for an effect. I can't find the words that don't sound accusative and most likely incite defensiveness.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
